Spiritual Pilgrimage
General Conference = Spiritual Pilgrimage.

When I was accepted to medical school, I was not surprised by the lack of social support from some (not all) peers and previous local church leaders.
By then, I had become well acquainted with the cultural religious norm that seemed to isolate females who had a desire to pursue further (not stopping at an undergrad degree) graduate education for a career, particularly towards Medicine. In my experience, the undergraduate school I was attending and the ‘choice’ Pre-Med advisor ‘contributed’ to this ‘interesting’ atmosphere.
Gratefully, as a convert to the LDS church, I was also at a point in my life where I had gained a solid testimony of personal revelation and having faith in the teachings of the Prophets. I knew for myself that I had a path in life before me, one which I had prepared for, but also one which I felt had been prepared for me.
When President Hinckley provided the following counsel, I felt gratitude for my membership in this church where we are guided by modern-day Prophet(s) and Apostles…especially at this time of life when some things seem so uncertain.
‘You must get all of the education that you possibly can. Life has become so complex and competitive. You cannot assume that you have entitlements due you. You will be expected to put forth great effort and to use your best talents to make your way to the most wonderful future of which you are capable. Sacrifice a car; sacrifice anything that is needed to be sacrificed to qualify yourselves to do the work of the world. That world will in large measure pay you what it thinks you are worth, and your worth will increase as you gain education and proficiency in your chosen field.
The Lord wants you to educate your minds and hands, whatever your chosen field. Whether it be repairing refrigerators, or the work of a skilled surgeon, you must train yourselves. Seek for the best schooling available.
In this day and time, a girl needs an education. She needs the means and skills by which to earn a living should she find herself in a situation where it becomes necessary to do so.
The whole gamut of human endeavor is now open to women. There is not anything that you cannot do if you will set your mind to it. I am grateful that women today are afforded the same opportunity to study for science, for the professions, and for every other facet of human knowledge. You are as entitled as are men to the Spirit of Christ, which enlightens every man and woman who comes into the world.
You can include in the dream of the woman you would like to be a picture of one qualified to serve society and make a significant contribution to the world of which she will be a part. Set your priorities in terms of marriage and family, but also pursue educational programs which will lead to satisfying work and productive employment in case you do not marry, or to a sense of security and fulfillment in the event you do marry. Education will increase your appreciation and refine your talent.’
I read this article today, and although I do not think it is completely accurate, I do know that many women now find themselves in a difficult situation given our economic climate.
I’m certainly looking forward to this weekend’s General Conference…
A totally good reminder- everyone has their take on things and opinions- but the most important one when it comes to doctrine is the Prophet’s. It seems like a lot of women forget that and either just give up the Church to go be like the masses or give up their ambition to stay home and be discontent. The Prophet has told us that we don’t have to choose- just have to stay close to the Lord he’ll put our talents where he needs them. Thanks Di for reminding me!!
beautiful article. Beautifully written post. Beautiful you.
Thanks ladies for your great thoughts! Did you get a chance to read this month’s Ensign? Interesting segment on education and related topics.
I’m wondering if I have found my long lost successful friend Di!
I hope so!
It sounds like you are encouraging many women to follow their hearts, and not give up on their dreams, whatever they may be.
You always were one to lift others. I’m sure you have touched many lives along your way. I always admired your ambition, confidence, and direction.
Unlike many of your readers, I a not pursuing a medical career, (actually, I don’t think anyone picks this profession as a career, I think it’s a calling . . .) I am a wife and mother supporting my husband on this path.
The world could certainly use more doctors with good moral character. I hope this blog encourages women to follow their hearts and step up to the plate!
I miss you!
Emily
I hope this note finds you well.
I was glad to stumble upon this blog. I have to say that as a pre-med at BYU I faced a lot of criticism from fellow students. I even heard the reasoning that women shouldn’t be allowed into medical school because they take the spots of men who have to support their families! I was very grateful (and surprised) to find the huge amount of support from the pre-med advisor. This man, typically regarded with fear, met with me during my committee letter interview and only asked how he could get more females to apply to medical school. Interestingly, out of the 4 LDS students in who just graduated with me in my medical school class, 3 of us were female!
Thanks so much for the quote from President Hinckley. I love it!!!
For the record – when I was doing my pre-med classes all of my church leaders were EXTREMELY supportive. This includes my Stake President (who’s wife was the General Relief Society President at the time), my Stake Relief Society President and my Bishop. In fact, when I told my Bishop that guys actually told me they wouldn’t date me because I was applying for medical school – he couldn’t believe it!!!! It was only my peers who apparently thought I was on the road to apostasy.
di:
thank you so much for reminding me of these inspiring words of Pres. Hinckley. i have so much respect and admiration for you and the education and work you are pursuing. the world needs more women like you!!!